[ adorable pj's from the 40s. be sure to click the largest view to read the accompanying ad text! ]
My ongoing answers to questions you all have asked me!
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I don’t mind sharing my favorite Virginia spots at all! My favorite spots are in the Northern part of the state: past Dulles Airport and out towards the Shenandoah Valley. Leesburg is a great town to wander around for antique shops: The Black Shutter is my favorite (and also houses “Suzy-q-tiques”, the clothing dealer who I have bought many things from–including my wedding dress!), but there are a few others that are worth checking out too. As I mentioned in another post, Lucketts also has three (that I can think of) antique shops along the main road, going towards Point of Rocks, MD. Purcellville, VA is another great spot: Really Great Finds is fantastic I hear, and there are some other spots around town as well. Lastly, more north, into Maryland, Brunswick has a few shops. Besides being home to my favorite place to get coffee and a dessert (Beans in the Belfry, there are a handful of antique shops with fantastic goodies!
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I honestly do not do a lot of vintage garment shopping online (the fit can be so difficult for me; I prefer buying things that I can try on first), so I’m at a bit of a loss to recommend specific stores aside from Etsy or Ebay (or one of my lovely affiliates!). As for some great updo’s, I’d suggest checking out video tutorials from Aya or Ashley!
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I have been interested in vintage style for most of my life; I grew up watching a lot of classic films, so the glamor and manner in which women always looked pulled together inspired me! My mom also had quite a few books on collecting antique clothing, and I’d spend hours looking through those and dreaming of wearing the gorgeous dresses. I didn’t know many people who wore vintage (or vintage inspired) garments on a day-to-day basis until I was in my late teens, when I started becoming a bit more interested in exploring the possibilities of wearing vintage inspired looks. It wasn’t until I was about 21 that I really started to strike out into vintage dressing and acquire a few pieces here and there to mix into my wardrobe. I began by mixing pieces from the 1910s to 1970s with my general look (at the time very bohemian/artsy), and as I got more comfortable with wearing unusual pieces, I started to hone in on what decades I liked best and accent my outfits with period-appropriate makeup and hair do’s. So I’d say I’ve been dressing in a vintage manner, in earnest, for the past 4 years.
Ah the wedding! It seems so long ago already… lol! I did a bunch of posts on my blog during the planning process, but if there are specific questions (I could probably write a whole post on all the nitty-gritty things. lol!), feel free to ask away!
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I have been literally sewing for as long as I can remember! My mother sewed and so I learned at a young age by sewing scraps together into Barbie clothes. I taught myself many aspects of sewing (including rudimentary pattern drafting) through books, which are my biggest resources! As a teenager, I interned with a pattern designer/seamstress for a short time and signed up for a few, miscellaneous classes. Learning the art of sewing, for me, has been a very organic, self-directed method. Sometimes this has involved huge mistakes, spending weeks searching for solutions, or having projects completely fail. But I view these as learning experiences and part of the thrill of sewing! I’m actually working on a series of posts on sewing and my experiences right now, so hopefully those will be “blog ready” soon.
Alas, my love of vintage doesn’t really extend to sleepwear, despite my admiration of vintage pj’s and such! Usually it’s just men’s style button-up shirts. I really don’t like sleeping in pj’s, and I get tangled in nightgowns (I toss and turn a lot!). So shirts and tshirts my husband has bought me are the main sleepwear! So unglamorous… I know! hehe! I do occasionally pull out my vintage bed jackets though when it gets cold and I am reading before bed; I have some lovely ones from a blue knit one to some peachy-satin numbers! One thing I do need to add to my sleepwear is a nice, vintage style robe.
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I honestly don’t feel like I get that much done on a daily-basis! lol. My days tend to be a bit scattered, due to working odd jobs from home. But my “typical” day goes something like this: wake up early and eat breakfast while doing some reading or checking my email. Work on blog stuff, reply to emails and catch up on my feed reader (as well as just general internet stuff) until about 8:30. I’ll usually work out around then, or do housework. I’m a morning person, so I try to also do any work-related things I need to do before about 2pm. I take a break and have afternoon tea (a necessity!) and catch up on web things. After that, I’ll finish any housework left to do, and then do my own projects until dinnertime. After dinner I try to keep my evenings free for my husband. Sometimes we watch movies together, or I’ll sew/knit/craft, or write blog posts. Just something quiet to wind down to!
That being said, my days usually don’t go this well! Some days, I get distracted early on by a project I’m working on. Other days I spend my time running errands because I only get to do that about once a week. Of course, there are the inevitable days where I feel like I’m spinning my wheels and getting nowhere. hehe!
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I’ve found that dressing in a vintage manner does cause quite a stir! hehe! Thankfully, most of the feedback I have gotten has been positive, and most people seem to be delighted that there are people keeping the “glamor of the past” alive. I generally just say a polite thank you, or if a comment isn’t made directly to me (often times it’s someone commenting to another person as I walk by), I just smile to let them know I appreciate their comment! Sometimes people will ask specifically about why I dress the way I do, how I do my hair, what movie star inspires me the most, etc., and those are the ones I can gush a bit more about my love for vintage. hehe!
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I have to admit, I have. Although the majority of people that know what I have chosen to do respect it. I think the lovely thing about being a woman in the modern age is that we do have so many options open to use as far as what we do as adults! Women can choose to pursue careers, stay at home, or higher education–the possibilities are endless!
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You might want to start by checking out this list of common vintage knitting abbreviations and what they mean (it’s a list I refer to a lot!). I would highly suggest also checking out Knitting Help for general stitch instructions. The fantastic thing about that website is not only does the lady who runs it have a wide array of stitch references available, but also videos on how to do the stitches, which would be fantastic for cross-language knitting help, I would imagine. Otherwise, I don’t know of any good sites that translate knitting patterns per-se–perhaps someone else knows of something?
My question is, at which vintage stores do you shop? I live in Ohio, and I noticed that you lived in Virginia, so if you could let me know of some cool vintage/antique shops, I would really appreciate it.
What are some good online vintage clothing stores? I’m looking for a coat and some fitted tops. Also for longer hair what is good to pin it up for an updo?
What got you into dressing vintage? How long Have you been dressing vintage for? Your wedding pics were gorgeous, maybe a bit of background on how you put your wedding together?
[ "it's exciting to design your own distinctive fashions" from 1947. ]
How and when did you learn to sew? Do you find pjs just as cute and vintage-inspired as the rest of your wardrobe?
Just curious – what’s your average day like? You seem to accomplish so much. I’m jealous! I’d love to learn how you schedule your day.
My question is, which I’m sure of, do you get compliments on your style when you go out? And how do you respond to people? I just smile and say thank you. It seems that many people are so starstruck to see some of these styles come back.
Do you ever get negative comments about staying home?
I have another question for you regarding knitting. I love knitting and have some old vintage pattern I’m working on. However there’s a lot of vintage pattern in English on the web, and since I haven’t found any good translator/dictionary for knitting-related words -I have trouble trying them out. Do you know any good English website, with descriptions on how to knit differently?
Thank you all so much again for your continued questions! I really love being able to answer these–especially the ones on vintage fashion and creative pursuits (my main passions in life! lol).












You’re so sweet to take time and answer people’s questions!
I have often wondered what your average day looks like, because it does seem like you accomplish a lot! And I also love that in this modern age, you can choose to stay home. In my young radical feminist days I would have thought you were “cheating,” (I was pretty hard-core back then), but now I am deeply envious of you! There are so many projects I would take on if I were home during the day.
That being said, even if I didn’t work outside the home, I don’t think I would accomplish as much as you do. I don’t have the discipline to create a structured schedule for myself and stick to it.
-And I wonder how many of us got started in sewing by making clothes for Barbie?!? LOL
Thanks for sharing. I am looking forward to the sewing posts you’re working on. You are such a lovely person. Have a nice day.
Thanks so much for the mention…and this was such an ‘elegant’ read.
Hi Casey,
I just looked at your wedding photos and they are just so lovely. Your husband and you look so happy… made me remember my own wedding and smile.
I also love that you stay at home. I finished my doctorate a little under a year ago and have been working since, but I must admit that if me and my husband could afford it, I would love to stay at home – I’d love to have more time to devote to our relationship and overall quality of life stuff. I am not even 30 yet and feel burn out! I am definitely a feminist (my academic area is sexual violence against women) and I think it is wonderful that you have chosen to stay at home.
I really love your blog (I just found you!) Congrats on your style and the self possession to dress vintage, not all of us could pull that off:)
Hi Casey, love your blog! I love what you said about staying at home. I get so much flack when people hear I want to stay at home eventually, especially from other women. I think it’s more of a mindset of thinking stay at home wives and mothers don’t appreciate what women of the past had to do to get competitive jobs, which is totally untrue! I think a crucial part of equality should be choice- to work or stay at home. Thanks for such a great post!
I knew it! I knew you were a morning person! Agh…! Is there no hope for those of us who squalor the morning away snoozing in bed?
Hope you don’t mind another question: Do you incorporate ‘vintage’ stuff into your decor, and musical tastes? I know you primarily post about fashion and whatnot, but I thought your sense of style might spill over into other areas too.
Hi Casey, thanks so much for writing up these questions and answers. I thoroughly enjoyed reading them – and drooling over your gorgeous wedding pics!
I have a question well is more like a reminder…when are you going to share with us the picutures that the professional photographer too of you at your hubbys ball?
I always love finding out how people get into wearing vintage clothing . . . so interesting that you were into a more bohemian style at first!
Thank you so much! What an interesting read! I’m so impressed you’ve learned sewing basically by trial-and-error. I’ve had a few projects go completley wrong lately, so I’m considering taking a class (for the first time since home-ed =)) coming fall.
Also, I’m amazed at the amount of things you manages to get done in a day! I always feel like I’m slightly late =)
Really interesting post! I haven’t had a full-time job in a little over a year, so I’ve been housewiving around as well.
There’s always a strange reaction when people find out I don’t have a job… they always ask what I “do” all day or make some assumption that my husband and I are rich and I “don’t have to work.” I try to keep a similar schedule to you, but there are so many distractions! However, I think there’s this sense of obligation to get a lot done since I’m not “working.” I enjoy being home, but there’s kind of a weird social stigma to it!
Ever since you first mentioned it, I’ve been very interested in the concept of “staying home”. I’ve been doing a lot of staying home myself, but mostly because I can’t find a job in my town! I cannot get over the guilt of it. However, I feel like as long as this is what I’m doing, I might as well learn to enjoy it. If you’re willing to share, I’d like to know your philosophy behind staying home, and what tips you have to not be depressed about it. Thank you!! elissa.l.marcus@gmail.com